Catching up on simplifying my life: days 2-6 (hey, who said I’d write on a daily basis!)
Day 2: Evaluate your commitments. Look at everything you’ve got going on in your life. Everything, from work to home to civic to kids’ activities to hobbies to side businesses to other projects. Think about which of these really gives you value, which ones you love doing. Which of these are in line with the 4-5 most important things you listed above? Drop those that aren’t in line with those things. Article here.
This one? I’m actually pretty good at (lack of kids helps). Not being over committed is, in part due to being an introvert. I combine my walking with fun FitBit challenges with the 9 year old nephew and 10 year old niece. I group text during football games with older nephews. Over the years, I learned that being what may be perceived as being “selfish” with my time allows me to fully participate in activities I enjoy.
Day 3: Evaluate your time. How do you spend your day? What things do you do, from the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep? Make a list, and evaluate whether they’re in line with your priorities. If not, eliminate the things that aren’t, and focus on what’s important. Redesign your day.
The biggest time waster in my day is my commute. Given the housing prices in the Boston area, I’m locked into the commute. I’ve started to listening to audio books, pod casts to catch up on my ‘reading’ while spending windshield time. After doing this list the last time, I realized that by simplifying my wardrobe to similar colors, I reduced the number loads of laundry (yeah!). I’m still working on teaching the cats to clean the house.
Day 4: Simplify work tasks. Our work day is made up of an endless list of work tasks. If you simply try to knock off all the tasks on your to-do list, you’ll never get everything done, and worse yet, you’ll never get the important stuff done. Focus on the essential tasks and eliminate the rest. Read more.
Um. I’ve learned that if I go to work early (we have flexible start times), I can take care of most of the daily tasks before being inundated with the unknown. Unfortunately, my industry is fraught with “emergency” essential tasks. I’ve learned to calendar to due dates, combine tasks. The important stuff gets done; it is the this won’t take a second stuff that keeps piling up!
Day 5: Simplify home tasks. In that vein, think about all the stuff you do at home. Sometimes our home task list is just as long as our work list. And we’ll never get that done either. So focus on the most important, and try to find ways to eliminate the other tasks (automate, eliminate, delegate, or hire help).
One of the downsides of being single is that there isn’t anybody to help with the crazy chores. I try to meal prep over the weekends. I have a condo so much of the annoying home ownership is out of the HOA dues. Bills are paid automatically. My absolute distain for household tasks has probably saved me here. If I cannot figure out how to use an item for two or more tasks, it’s doesn’t come into the house.
Day 6: Learn to say no. This is actually one of the key habits for those trying to simplify their lives. If you can’t say no, you will take on too much. Article here.
So, I’m working on this. I’ve decided that in corporate America, no equates with being tagged as a non-team player. I’ve learned to say “I’d be happy to help X with Y project but can you help me re-organize where you’d like this to fit in?” to something as simple as task swapping among peers and tapping into our strengths.